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Are you having conflicts in your relationship?

Do you argue about the same things over and over again?

Learn how to communicate better & enhance your relationships with CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS: THE ART OF FAIR FIGHTING, by Nancy Hay, LPC

Are you ready to change your relationship…even if your partner won’t read the book?

Sometimes only one partner uses the steps in the book, and the relationship changes for the better! If you work on new approaches to communication, your interactions change.

  • Do you sometimes want to have the last word?
  • Do you want “to be right”?
  • Are you arguing more often than you would like to?
  • Do the same issues keep coming up…with the same results?

You CAN DO something about this!

You just need to learn new skills! This book teaches you 10 steps to improving your conflict resolution skills. Straight forward and simple; not “psycho-babble”.

Conflict Resolution by Nancy Hay

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In Conflict Resolution Skills: The Art of Fair Fighting, you will learn:

  • How to change your approach to arguing
  • How to de-escalate conflicts
  • How to state what you want without “pushing buttons”
  • How to really listen & hear what your partner is communicating
  • Why “winning” or “being right” is a set-up to fail

In this book, you will discover proven skills to make your relationships happier. These skills are proven to help couples just like you. They work!

How do I know?

These are not skills we learn at home. As a matter of fact, in my first relationship, I had no clue how to manage conflict. I would either try to prove my point or go into my people pleasing mode to keep the peace. I had no idea that conflict was natural and normal. I was sure that if we argued, we were doomed. You can imagine how well that worked out!

When I became a counselor, I learned about healthy conflict styles and healthy communication. Over the past 21 years, I have helped hundreds of couples communicate better and learn to get through their differences, not just sweep them under the rug.In my second session with couples, I go over the steps to fair fighting and use these skills as a foundation for all the following sessions.

In this book, you will discover proven skills to make your relationships happier. These skills are proven to help couples just like you. They work!

When couples come into my office for counseling sessions, they pay $155 per hour. As I mentioned, the second counseling session is devoted to teaching the skills in the book. Today you can get this same information for only $39.00.

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    "As the Director of Aviation Medicine Advisory Service, I have had the pleasure of working with Nancy Hay for many years. She has been an invaluable resource for pilots and their families. In the unstable aviation environment of today, it is comforting for pilots to have access to a clinical professional who understands the unique stressors of this industry - and can help them build and maintain healthy relationships to navigate the turbulent waters of their profession."

    ~ Don Hudson, M.D., Denver, CO